So you think that happiness, sanity and security consists of clinging on to things. Stop clinging to change. There isn’t anybody to cling to them anyway. Have you been identifying yourself as some sort of entity, sitting, watching the world go it’s merry way? You probably have not acknowledged your inseparability from everything there is. Simply, you pass on as well with all the rest of the stuff.
We think we are witnesses of our thoughts, experiences and feelings and find ourselves in a flux of anxiety. Like in Schrodinger’s Cat, a scenario where the cat may be dead or alive, the box may be empty or there may be a Barbie in the Box. Anything is possible.